In language class, We are researching about culture and some of the elements related to it. And I consider etiquette and protocol is definitely one of the Chinese cultural elements. Confucius, China’s greatest sage established a system of ethics, morals, hierarchy and behavior, setting the rules for people dealing with other people, and establishing each person’s proper place in society. The main Etiquette in China emphasize on 5 main relationships, Ruler to Subject, Husband to Wife, Father to son, brother to brother and friend to friend. How does these people deal with and keep the harmonious relationships and be respectful to each other.
To be more specific, there are numerous rules or etiquette to do in Chinese culture and I’m going to introduce one rule in each situation.
*In greeting, when being introduced to Chinese, the accepted form of greeting is the handshake, even among Chinese. Chinese may also nod or slightly bow.
*In compliment, Unlike the Western custom, compliments are not graciously accepted with a “thank you,” but rather with “not at all or it was nothing.” Accepting and giving direct praise is considered poor etiquette.
*Silence is used effectively. Not talking while others do signifies politeness
*The Chinese have many ways of indicating refusal without actually saying “no”. Commonly you will hear “that would be inconvenient,” or “it will be taken under consideration,” or “it is being discussed”
*In farewell, The host will accompany a high-ranking guest all the way to the car, and wait until the car has departed before leaving. Don’t turn your back to the car until it is out of sight.
The above mentioned are some of the basic etiquette in China. It sounds complicated and useless, but to some extent, these cultural elements helps Chinese to suit their environment and helps them to deal with others.